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sugarbabe2
09-15-2009, 10:39 AM
Can Guys And Girls Be Just Friends? http://brokeup.com/images/stories/just-friends.jpg
Women and men can be completely platonic best friends under one condition: If both parties share an unwavering preference for the cock.

That's right the verdict is in, ladies and gentlemen, and I'm laying down the law Judge Judy style (because no one messes with that bitch). Women and men can absolutely NOT be just really good friends.

Ladies:

Ask any guy friend of yours what he thought of you upon first meeting you. I guarantee it was something like this:

"Hi, it's nice to meet you." (I wonder what she would look like while I do her doggy style?)

As harsh as the reality might seem to some of you, it's the absolute truth. Men are very visual creatures whose innate goal in life is to bang every attractive-looking thing in sight. And even if mounting you isn't in the forefront of their thoughts, it is certainly in the back of their heads at all times. Somewhere in between thoughts of cheese steaks and fantasy football.

The guy friend is optimistic that someday you will get drunk enough to actually let him see if his fantasy of slamming you against the head board is all he imagined it to be. Are you good in bed or do you make Paris Hilton look like she should win an AVN award by comparison? These are all pressing questions that most men ask themselves within the first 30 seconds of meeting you. Furthermore, your promises of being their bestest friend in the whole wide world is not enough to make them disregard the sexual curiosity which is consuming their head. I am of course always referring to the head that resides below the belt. Plain and simple, these men will trade being your BFF to see how you blow job skills measure up in a heartbeat.

So unless this male best friend of yours has a knack for bedazzling jeans, and shares similar boyfriend problems as you, then a friendship can simply not remain platonic. Attempts of impregnation will be made.

Men:

The 'just friends' zone is borderline pathetic. Either grow some balls and make a move, or go speak to someone who wouldn't mind waking up next to your flatulent ass every morning. If the girl you are spending all of your time with is telling you about tampons and her guy problems, the future in this relationship is looking grim for you, pal. This woman is not attracted to you in the least. She would most likely choose getting humped by the neighbor's Doberman over you any day.

So as painful as it may be for your testicles as first, I suggest cutting ties as soon as you realize you've been in the 'friend zone' a little too long. Then to soften the blow (or lack there of), go and invest in a nice clean hooker. If you pay her extra I'm sure she'll even pretend to like you. Unless you're the type to wear brightly colored Ed Hardy shirts, in which case no one will ever really like you.

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What do you guys think???

Cochise™
09-15-2009, 10:44 AM
I have many female friends. In fact my best friend is a girl. Seems like this article was more of a comedic thing or the person who wrote it loves to party hard down the jersey shore with super cool spiked hair.

sugarbabe2
09-15-2009, 10:47 AM
I totally disagree with this article as well. I have many guy friends that have an always will just be friends. Doesn't mean that you are obligated to them sexually. It's just nice to have a different opinion of things.

lola
09-15-2009, 11:01 AM
Yes men & women can be "just friends" but I would bet there is an undercurrent of sexual attraction in at least 50% of those situations. Maybe it might be more or less and it might come more from either the guy or the girl, but I absolutely believe that *some* M/F friendships have more than their fair share of sexual interest/attraction.

That doesn't mean it'll get acted upon, and it might be denied until the ends of the earth, but it could be there.

Friendship is a safe zone, so sometimes either friend may be in denial about the interest. Chemistry is sometimes just that...just cuz you feel a spark or some curiousity about someone doesn't mean they are right for you or that you should do something about it! Sometimes it is best to let sleeping dogs lie LOL

tomciz
09-15-2009, 01:55 PM
I have many female friends. In fact my best friend is a girl. Seems like this article was more of a comedic thing or the person who wrote it loves to party hard down the jersey shore with super cool spiked hair.

every girl needs her gay best friend

Thylacine
09-15-2009, 03:08 PM
ZING!

Cochise™
09-15-2009, 04:02 PM
HA! Burn!!!! But did you ever think that every guy needs a lesbian best friend? I just blew your mind.

Cochise™
09-15-2009, 04:04 PM
Friendship is a safe zone, so sometimes either friend may be in denial about the interest. Chemistry is sometimes just that...just cuz you feel a spark or some curiousity about someone doesn't mean they are right for you or that you should do something about it! Sometimes it is best to let sleeping dogs lie LOL


Word to big bird. You speaks the truth Ms. Lola. Or should I say, friend.....:spiteful:

-Nicky G

sugarbabe2
09-15-2009, 04:17 PM
Nicky G has emerged.

HU3436
09-15-2009, 04:20 PM
What ? , yes of course they could just be friends.
(schwing-schwing,schwing-schwing) :smoke:

tomciz
09-15-2009, 04:24 PM
HA! Burn!!!! But did you ever think that every guy needs a lesbian best friend? I just blew your mind.

indeed you did

Silverbull
09-22-2009, 02:49 AM
Yes men & women can be "just friends" but I would bet there is an undercurrent of sexual attraction in at least 50% of those situations. Maybe it might be more or less and it might come more from either the guy or the girl, but I absolutely believe that *some* M/F friendships have more than their fair share of sexual interest/attraction.

That doesn't mean it'll get acted upon, and it might be denied until the ends of the earth, but it could be there.

Friendship is a safe zone, so sometimes either friend may be in denial about the interest. Chemistry is sometimes just that...just cuz you feel a spark or some curiousity about someone doesn't mean they are right for you or that you should do something about it! Sometimes it is best to let sleeping dogs lie LOL

I agree:dance3: