sugarbabe2
07-30-2009, 09:22 AM
BROKEUP.COM
If you catch offense to this, then guess what, you obviously know I am speaking to you...so get it together.
Lately I have been noticing women...friends, family, friends of friends on Facebook, random women I overhear talking when I am out...basically acting PATHETIC. And over what? A MAN. Pretty much acting STUPID, CRAZY, and again, PATHETIC just because they don't have a man. It's absolutely ridiculous.
Listen here, YOU as a WOMAN should NOT feel VALIDATED only when there is a man in your life. We all don't want to be lonely...that's a fact. But seriously, there is no reason to be going half crazy JUST because you don't have a man.
There is nothing wrong with being single. Think of it as a time to enjoy YOU, your friends, and other activities that YOU love to do. Don't always think of it as a drag to go out alone, or with your girls, and a dude not be in the equation, eff that.
Once you take your mind off of the thought that "I want a man" and you just enjoy yourself and LIFE, things will fall into your lap when you're not even looking for it. It’s a golden rule, proven fact. Think about shoes, ladies...You know when you are trying to find that perfect BLACK shoe, but because you are looking, you can't find A THING. But when it's time to look for a WHITE shoe, what do you see? 1000 pairs of BLACK shoes! Happens all the time! DON'T look for a man! If you let all those thoughts and frustrations go, HE will come to YOU when you least expect it.
And if you're sexually frustrated on top of all this, do NOT give in or act like a darn whore just to get your jollies off, or to be in the company of a dude. That could bring a whole world of issues into just a simple f*ck. Seriously, go to the sex store, buy some porn and a toy. I know it's not the same but it helps. And it also helps with SELF LOVE which these women are obviously lacking.
I am not saying all of this because I am in a relationship. When I was single, I NEVER ONCE said "I want a MAN!" or things of that nature. I worked, hustled, enjoyed MY time and time with my FRIENDS, and never thought about a dude. And what always happened? A man would fall into my lap when I definitely wasn't looking for him.
Ladies if you have a JOB, friends, family, etc...you need to be blessed and thankful that you have all this. Don't feel like a man makes you feel like more of a woman. That's BS, because in reality WE run THIS. Yes ladies, WOMEN are the most powerful creatures on this earth. WE ARE MANS RUIN. We are a man's weakness. It's so deep and I could go on forever with these points but I'll let you think about that. But it's just as simple as this: you can't even watch a MANS SPORT (i.e.boxing, basketball, etc) without seeing hot chicks in bikinis walking or dancing around.
Seriously, WE RUN THIS! This doesn't mean be a cocky airheaded chick, but please begin to walk in CONFIDENCE and realize that you seriously need to be a movement by yourself. If you feel like you're nothing by yourself and you feel more validated when you have a man, than what exactly can you bring to the table in a relationship? You need to get right with YOU FIRST.
I'm done talking. please think about all of this ladies. I am telling you this because I KNOW.
PERSONALLY I CAN'T STAND GIRLS THAT ALWAYS NEED A MAN IN THERE LIFE TO FEEL COMFORTED OR SECURE. YOU NEED TO LOVE YOURSELF FOR WHO YOU ARE FIRST. IF YOU AREN'T HAPPY WITH WHO YOU ARE THEN YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO MAKE SOMEONE ELSE HAPPY!
If you catch offense to this, then guess what, you obviously know I am speaking to you...so get it together.
Lately I have been noticing women...friends, family, friends of friends on Facebook, random women I overhear talking when I am out...basically acting PATHETIC. And over what? A MAN. Pretty much acting STUPID, CRAZY, and again, PATHETIC just because they don't have a man. It's absolutely ridiculous.
Listen here, YOU as a WOMAN should NOT feel VALIDATED only when there is a man in your life. We all don't want to be lonely...that's a fact. But seriously, there is no reason to be going half crazy JUST because you don't have a man.
There is nothing wrong with being single. Think of it as a time to enjoy YOU, your friends, and other activities that YOU love to do. Don't always think of it as a drag to go out alone, or with your girls, and a dude not be in the equation, eff that.
Once you take your mind off of the thought that "I want a man" and you just enjoy yourself and LIFE, things will fall into your lap when you're not even looking for it. It’s a golden rule, proven fact. Think about shoes, ladies...You know when you are trying to find that perfect BLACK shoe, but because you are looking, you can't find A THING. But when it's time to look for a WHITE shoe, what do you see? 1000 pairs of BLACK shoes! Happens all the time! DON'T look for a man! If you let all those thoughts and frustrations go, HE will come to YOU when you least expect it.
And if you're sexually frustrated on top of all this, do NOT give in or act like a darn whore just to get your jollies off, or to be in the company of a dude. That could bring a whole world of issues into just a simple f*ck. Seriously, go to the sex store, buy some porn and a toy. I know it's not the same but it helps. And it also helps with SELF LOVE which these women are obviously lacking.
I am not saying all of this because I am in a relationship. When I was single, I NEVER ONCE said "I want a MAN!" or things of that nature. I worked, hustled, enjoyed MY time and time with my FRIENDS, and never thought about a dude. And what always happened? A man would fall into my lap when I definitely wasn't looking for him.
Ladies if you have a JOB, friends, family, etc...you need to be blessed and thankful that you have all this. Don't feel like a man makes you feel like more of a woman. That's BS, because in reality WE run THIS. Yes ladies, WOMEN are the most powerful creatures on this earth. WE ARE MANS RUIN. We are a man's weakness. It's so deep and I could go on forever with these points but I'll let you think about that. But it's just as simple as this: you can't even watch a MANS SPORT (i.e.boxing, basketball, etc) without seeing hot chicks in bikinis walking or dancing around.
Seriously, WE RUN THIS! This doesn't mean be a cocky airheaded chick, but please begin to walk in CONFIDENCE and realize that you seriously need to be a movement by yourself. If you feel like you're nothing by yourself and you feel more validated when you have a man, than what exactly can you bring to the table in a relationship? You need to get right with YOU FIRST.
I'm done talking. please think about all of this ladies. I am telling you this because I KNOW.
PERSONALLY I CAN'T STAND GIRLS THAT ALWAYS NEED A MAN IN THERE LIFE TO FEEL COMFORTED OR SECURE. YOU NEED TO LOVE YOURSELF FOR WHO YOU ARE FIRST. IF YOU AREN'T HAPPY WITH WHO YOU ARE THEN YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO MAKE SOMEONE ELSE HAPPY!