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07-21-2009, 10:57 AM
WHAT DO YOU DO TO MAINTAIN A HEALTHY SEX LIFE WITH YOUR PARTNER???
A good sex life takes time and effort to maintain. It won’t always be easy -- our busy lives are taxing and often leave us tired and devoid of the imagination and motivation required to keep up the pace. Having good sex doesn’t necessarily mean spending hours and hours of frolicking, it can be as simple as doing something a little different just for a change.
Women are cyclic creatures, and our sex drive (http://www.askmen.com/dating/vanessa_150/155_love_secrets.html) will vary depending on hormones and what’s going on in our life. Sometimes it takes a bit longer to get hot and the same-old song and dance may not be enough.
Therefore, it's important to add a few more stimulating aspects to your sex life to keep things interesting.
Here are tips for better sex (http://www.askmen.com/dating/keywords/better-sex.html), which should keep the two of you hot for some time to come.
<H3>Give instructions
After a while you may think you know how to please your partner in every way, but this is very rarely true. There is always something you haven’t tried, and there is bound to be something one of you always does that could be done differently.
To combat this for better sex, have a lesson session in which you don’t think you know it all, and are at each other's mercy as teacher. Talk about things you haven’t tried, but would like to, then choose one suggestion from each partner, and get down and dirty. We often get caught thinking we know what our partners like, and after a while it becomes "the way it’s done." Lose this myth (http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_250/293_love_tip.html) and put yourself in the student's chair for a while for better sex you won't regret. </H3>Tell your fantasies
Talking about your fantasies with your partner is a very conducive form of sex play. It increases communication with your partner (http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_200/204_dating_girl.html), which is of great importance, as well, it also helps you get to know each other better for better sex. Yes, you may be surprised by what comes out of each others mouths, but this works both ways. Keep it light at first and don’t throw each other in the deep end with fantasies about people you both know or reveal fetishes you aren't sure about. Sit back with a glass of wine and keep your clothes on -- for now. Fantasy play can also be incorporated into a game for better sex. Use your imagination, and keep it sexy. Take it in turns and see where it leads you.
Try a new position
You already know how to bring your partner to orgasm (http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_300/382_love_tip.html) in two ways (probably). You repeat these regularly because they work -- there's no harm in that. However, if you never, ever try any new positions again, how will you ever know? New positions need a reasonably high level of arousal in your lover, so choose your time to strike a new pose when she is quite obviously feeling very randy.
There is no limit to the number of ways to have sex, so you can use your imagination and come up with as many weird and wonderful inventions as you desire. Simply changing locations can dramatically change the position, so consider this too (for example on top of the washing machine, on a bench, beanbag or table).
Try a new place
Sex in a new locale is definitely up there in exciting things to do for better sex. You can take a drive somewhere secluded where you can get a bit risqué. Try a public place (not too public) or simply move to a different room or area in your home -- or even someone else’s home. Whatever tickles your fancy. There are a million and one different places to have sex other than your home, in your bed -- use them.
A good sex life takes time and effort to maintain. It won’t always be easy -- our busy lives are taxing and often leave us tired and devoid of the imagination and motivation required to keep up the pace. Having good sex doesn’t necessarily mean spending hours and hours of frolicking, it can be as simple as doing something a little different just for a change.
Women are cyclic creatures, and our sex drive (http://www.askmen.com/dating/vanessa_150/155_love_secrets.html) will vary depending on hormones and what’s going on in our life. Sometimes it takes a bit longer to get hot and the same-old song and dance may not be enough.
Therefore, it's important to add a few more stimulating aspects to your sex life to keep things interesting.
Here are tips for better sex (http://www.askmen.com/dating/keywords/better-sex.html), which should keep the two of you hot for some time to come.
<H3>Give instructions
After a while you may think you know how to please your partner in every way, but this is very rarely true. There is always something you haven’t tried, and there is bound to be something one of you always does that could be done differently.
To combat this for better sex, have a lesson session in which you don’t think you know it all, and are at each other's mercy as teacher. Talk about things you haven’t tried, but would like to, then choose one suggestion from each partner, and get down and dirty. We often get caught thinking we know what our partners like, and after a while it becomes "the way it’s done." Lose this myth (http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_250/293_love_tip.html) and put yourself in the student's chair for a while for better sex you won't regret. </H3>Tell your fantasies
Talking about your fantasies with your partner is a very conducive form of sex play. It increases communication with your partner (http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_200/204_dating_girl.html), which is of great importance, as well, it also helps you get to know each other better for better sex. Yes, you may be surprised by what comes out of each others mouths, but this works both ways. Keep it light at first and don’t throw each other in the deep end with fantasies about people you both know or reveal fetishes you aren't sure about. Sit back with a glass of wine and keep your clothes on -- for now. Fantasy play can also be incorporated into a game for better sex. Use your imagination, and keep it sexy. Take it in turns and see where it leads you.
Try a new position
You already know how to bring your partner to orgasm (http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_300/382_love_tip.html) in two ways (probably). You repeat these regularly because they work -- there's no harm in that. However, if you never, ever try any new positions again, how will you ever know? New positions need a reasonably high level of arousal in your lover, so choose your time to strike a new pose when she is quite obviously feeling very randy.
There is no limit to the number of ways to have sex, so you can use your imagination and come up with as many weird and wonderful inventions as you desire. Simply changing locations can dramatically change the position, so consider this too (for example on top of the washing machine, on a bench, beanbag or table).
Try a new place
Sex in a new locale is definitely up there in exciting things to do for better sex. You can take a drive somewhere secluded where you can get a bit risqué. Try a public place (not too public) or simply move to a different room or area in your home -- or even someone else’s home. Whatever tickles your fancy. There are a million and one different places to have sex other than your home, in your bed -- use them.