Whats wrong with men?

[blueyedbeauty1011]

Ive gotten many text messages from close girl-friends talking about how their man is cheating/playing games. Im getting to the point where I am SO fed up with the way certain men (or should I say BOYS) act these days. They have a good thing going and because miss model walks by with her long legs and big boobs they automatically think the grass is greener on the other side. ANDDD when it doesnt end up working out they come crawling back and we're DUMB enough to take them back. LADIES LADIES LADIEEEESS we gotta step up our OWN game. Stop allowing guys to take advantage. Have some pride and dammit stand up for yourselves! Stop making up excuses for him and tell him whats really on your mind. Say your peace and be done with that loser. We think we know what love is but just remember one thing girls...Love isnt suppose to make you cry.

[sugarbabe2]

Ive gotten many text messages from close girl-friends talking about how their man is cheating/playing games. Im getting to the point where I am SO fed up with the way certain men (or should I say BOYS) act these days. They have a good thing going and because miss model walks by with her long legs and big boobs they automatically think the grass is greener on the other side. ANDDD when it doesnt end up working out they come crawling back and we're DUMB enough to take them back. LADIES LADIES LADIEEEESS we gotta step up our OWN game. Stop allowing guys to take advantage. Have some pride and dammit stand up for yourselves! Stop making up excuses for him and tell him whats really on your mind. Say your peace and be done with that loser. We think we know what love is but just remember one thing girls...Love isnt suppose to make you cry.

So yes all men have their moments....however I think that being "IN" love and loving someone are completley different. A guy can love a girls personality the joys they share but if they are not "IN" love then yes eventually they are going to cheat. Doesn't mean it's right it's just the way it goes. As for love not making you cry I don't agree with this one. Love is one of the most powerful emotions. All relationships have ups and downs regardless of how healthy it may be. And during those down times tears will be shed. It's these times that are suppose to bring you closer to your loved one (I'm not talking about taking a man back after cheating....that's just a no no). But if you are going to open your heart up completley to a person you have to be willing to accept the consequences of love.

[Fast Eddie]

But if you are going to open your heart up completley to a person you have to be willing to accept the consequences of love.

i just cried a little. it was beautiful

[Cochise™]

Did someone say long legs and big boobs?

[tomciz]

YouTube - Aerosmith - I Don't Wanna Miss a Thing

[sugarbabe2]

Did someone say long legs and big boobs?

LO...I have long legs and big boobs.

[Cochise™]

Tom, your hoe is out of pocket son.

[tomciz]

BITCH WHAT DID I TELL U !!

[sugarbabe2]

Woops sorry

[Miss Russia]

first off, gotta be a reason they cheated in the first place, and if they do, you must have 0 respect for yourself to take that scumbag back... i have cried in love before but i realized it's fuckin stupid, unless you're crying from joy, dump the asshole, thank you and have a nice day.

[joeyc521]

damn hunny this is some reaction ur gettin for ur first thread lol

[Cochise™]

you must have 0 respect for yourself to take that scumbag back...

I am willing to bet anything that you have been on the end of one of these situations.

[tomciz]

oh no he didnt

[Cochise™]

oh no he didnt

Most women have. Not just singling her out. Just saying not to throw stones if you live in a glass house. And if you got a glass jaw, you should watch your mouth. Cuz I'll break your face.

[Miss Russia]

no, i never took anyone back, and i never gave anyone a reason to cheat, so if you don't know me don't say anything.

[Cochise™]

no, i never took anyone back, and i never gave anyone a reason to cheat, so if you don't know me don't say anything.

Thats impossible. Sorry, but it is. Not dissing you, not saying your a bad person, I'm just saying I disagree.

[Cochise™]

Oh and I was just playfully quoating 50 Cent. Please don't take it as hostility with the whole glass jaw thing.

[dolcecorazon]

Do men like girls with brains anymore? I mean come on really. Is it always about the boobs. I like my rack but come on.

[sugarbabe2]

I'm sure they would like both....boobs and brains. I mean c'mon I like guys with a brain and a nice package.

[dolcecorazon]

I love a guy with good hair. Hair is simple, but if its messed up sorry! LOL.

[tomciz]

what do u mean anymore....there was a time when men liked women for their brains?

[Cochise™]

and i never gave anyone a reason to cheat

^^^This part especially is a funny statement to do. There is nothing you do or don't do that will make a man cheat. If he is that type of person then we will never let you know it and just cheat. You cannot say with certainty that no one has ever cheated on you. That's just ludacris.

[dolcecorazon]

Perhaps. Every dude has their own taste. To each their own! :drinks:

[Miss Russia]

that's fine... i know you're not dissing me, the people that truly know me will tell you i'm being honest, but i don't blame you cuz i do think very dif from other girls lol

[Cochise™]

But how do you know you have never been cheated on? Are you psychic? What do you mean by "give a reason"? Do you feel a woman has to act "accordingly" or a man will cheat?

[dolcecorazon]

I love you Katie but answer your freaking IM's!!!! I finished my meeting hoe

[Miss Russia]

i know they didn't, i didn't have many relationships but the ones i did were faithful... and i'm not going to get into deatils, like i said your opinion is fine, doesn't bother me.

[tomciz]

the law of averages says everyone gets cheated on or cheats by our age

[Cochise™]

I just don't see how you can say it with certainty. Unless you have only had those weird relationships when you have passwords, access to phones, know where eachother is at every minute of the day...likes seriously, it's even damn near impossible to know for sure even if you have stalker like relationships. What did you only date priests or something? So it's easier to believe in them?

[Cochise™]

I guess it boils down to me asking how do you know for sure, is it just based on trust?

[Miss Russia]

fuck the law... no, no priests

[dolcecorazon]

Bitch you're going to get shanked lol

[dolcecorazon]

Pardon my french :)

[tomciz]

shanked with truth

[Cochise™]

fuck the law... no, no priests

No priests? You only said no to that part of my post. So.....yes to stalker like relationships?

[dolcecorazon]

shanked with love=) she responded so now i love her <3

[Miss Russia]

no, i don't do psycho relationships, i hope that answers the question.

[Cochise™]

Doesn't answer my question as to how you know for certain but I have now become bored with it so...moving on.

[blueyedbeauty1011]

damn hunny this is some reaction ur gettin for ur first thread lol



sorry hunny...didnt mean any of that towards you...you actually respect me..and hell yes im gunna get lovey dovey right now and say i fuckin love you for it :)

[Thylacine]

Most women have. Not just singling her out. Just saying not to throw stones if you live in a glass house. And if you got a glass jaw, you should watch your mouth. Cuz I'll break your face.

This comment was so gangsta I just punched my dog in the face for looking at me.

[Cochise™]

BAAA AHAHAHAHA

[Thylacine]

I guess it boils down to me asking how do you know for sure, is it just based on trust?

Someone asked me shit along this reasoning (complete with how do you know really comment) and I answered it like this: Somewhere, someone is asking my girl the same thing you're asking me and she's answering, "Because I trust him, he wouldn't do that." And my girl is right. Just like I am right now. Because I trust her.

[ArGroxwel]

Touchy subject sometimes. I think people just need to keep it real at all times. Fuck wasting your time with some hoe that is not ride or die. I could have easily gotten with 3 girls at one time while single, but i chose to just have fun and do me.

If the person cheated on you then leave their ass behind and move on. Chances are they didn't really respect you. Don't be blind just reconizeee.

[Cochise™]

3 girls at one time while single, but i chose to just have fun and do me.

What? Whats more fun than 3 girls at the same time?

[Thylacine]

What? Whats more fun than 3 girls at the same time?

The inner nerd in me want's to say LAN parties... but I'll refrain from embarrassing myself.

[blueyedbeauty1011]

As for love not making you cry I don't agree with this one.


i understand where ur coming from, i agree, i def worded my statement wrong i apologize loll its my 1st time on this thing cut me a break haha....but wat i meant was if someone truely is hands down in love with u they shouldnt do something like cheating, emotionally or physically abuse you, ya know that kind of stuff. they shouldnt want to intentionally make you cry in a bad way lol ....fights and arguments that shit happens with every relationship..that helps you grow as a couple but disrespecting your partner is uncalled for

[Massimo]

Cause girls are so innocent in everything

[sugarbabe2]

Cause girls are so innocent in everything


If you think girls are innocent you've been played. It's just a front.

[Cochise™]

Amen sister!

[~Frankie~]

In my opinion there is never a reason to cheat and if you do guy or girl you need to grow some balls and be an adult. Really and truly there is no excuse for it. You can't do anything to make a person cheat or not cheat. All you can do is be in a relationship with someone you trust and love. However you must know the difference between love and infatuation....it's a fine line.

No offense but I see you're 21 and when I was your age I honestly thought I knew what love is....I thought I was mature and an adult and all these other things but now that I'm 28 I look back and reflect and realize I didn't know what it was at all and surrounding myself with 30 year olds didn't make me any more mature than the other 21 year olds around me in matters of the heart anyways.

Just know that at your age....at this time in your life it's more likely to happen and yes you are more likely dealing with boys who have different priorities and different ideas on what they want in comparison to what they might want in 6-7-8-9 years from now.

I know this isn't a perfect answer but hopefully it gives you some hope that it just gets better from here!!!!

[Massimo]

If you think girls are innocent you've been played. It's just a front.

obviously you didnt pick up on the sarcasm lol

[blueyedbeauty1011]

all i know is im in an amazing relationship with a guy i love. He treats me with respect and he bends over backwards to make me happy. thats all i can ask for and live in the moment right now and as of right now he is my future but im not in a rush to get there...we have alot of growing to do together and all i can hope for is it stays that way

[Cochise™]

But I heard Joey and Ghattas were an item.....

[~Frankie~]

all i know is im in an amazing relationship with a guy i love. He treats me with respect and he bends over backwards to make me happy. thats all i can ask for and live in the moment right now and as of right now he is my future but im not in a rush to get there...we have alot of growing to do together and all i can hope for is it stays that way

Then you have nothing to worry about!!!! ;)

[blueyedbeauty1011]

yes..they have a nice relationship that i will never come between loll..i think he would pick ghattas over me hahaha

[Cochise™]

Oh man. a New England fan with a Jets fan. WTF is this world coming too? Yo both of ya should go in the live room, some good beats and peeps in there right now.

[Cochise™]

http://www.nightlifevibe.com/index.php?pageid=live

[Cochise™]

Sign up to stickam.com to chat and dont be lurkers, cuz there are like 7 right now.

[Skylab]

lol wow.. this thread is great. Good first thread :)

[joeyc521]

Then you have nothing to worry about!!!! ;)


damn right she has nuthin to worry bout lol....i treat her like gold :dance3:

[blueyedbeauty1011]

damn right she has nuthin to worry bout lol....i treat her like gold :dance3:





of coursee...only the best for ur baby girl :) xoxo

[~Frankie~]

damn right she has nuthin to worry bout lol....i treat her like gold :dance3:

LOL Bravo....keep it up! LOL

[Cochise™]

This thread took the gayest turn a thread has ever taken in the history of threads.

[sugarbabe2]

It's turned into a love fest. Maybe you guys should start a lovey dovey mush thread.

[Thylacine]

The guy on the right looks like me maybe never.... ok I never looked like that. I thought I could make a funny joke about it but nevermind. Instead here:


For the ladies.. no you hang up.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=80fUW-awkyo

[tomciz]

This thread took the gayest turn a thread has ever taken in the history of threads.


yea what the fuck...way to kill the mood

[~Frankie~]

what's wrong boys!?! Can't handle a little gayness!?! LOL

[tomciz]

no baby your my baby and baby gets the gold treatment yea baby loves baby oh baby

[Cochise™]

HAHAHAHA

[sugarbabe2]

I think guys need to have a balance.....a little bit of kindness along with "some" arrogance. Keeps girls on their toes.

[Cochise™]

Yeah but that kindness needs to stay private.

[tomciz]

yea put that shit in the back seat out of sight out of mind

[sugarbabe2]

Yeah but that kindness needs to stay private.

Agreed!

[blueyedbeauty1011]

if you dont like my thread dont look at it! loll ok so heres something...a friend of mine txted me today saying her bf somehow got into her school email and read emails between her and a male classmate over a project they were doing and he flipped out saying she can't work with any guys, even at school.....over-protective or psycho???

[kosmilly]

both.

[~Frankie~]

if you dont like my thread dont look at it! loll ok so heres something...a friend of mine txted me today saying her bf somehow got into her school email and read emails between her and a male classmate over a project they were doing and he flipped out saying she can't work with any guys, even at school.....over-protective or psycho???


both.


Ummmmmm breaking into her email makes him a psycho and telling her she can't work with guys on school projects makes him possessive which ultimately equates to psycho too! Tell her to kick his ass to he curb!!!

[blueyedbeauty1011]

Tell her to kick his ass to he curb!!!



i couldnt agree more!!!!!!!!

[Cochise™]

But she wont do it. Cuz she's a girl. And girls are stupid.

-Tom

[blueyedbeauty1011]

And girls are stupid.

-Tom




well now thats not very nice...not all of us are dumb....but just as there are dumb girls, there are dumb men so dont be hatin

[sugarbabe2]

Sounds like an unhealthy relationship.

[tomciz]

But she wont do it. Cuz she's a girl. And girls are stupid.

-Tom

its science

[blueyedbeauty1011]

its science





whats with all the hostility towards girls lollll we're not THAT dumb! not most of uss....have some faithhh

[sugarbabe2]

whats with all the hostility towards girls lollll we're not THAT dumb! not most of uss....have some faithhh

LOL get used to it hun!

[tomciz]

whats with all the hostility towards girls lollll we're not THAT dumb! not most of uss....have some faithhh

raul said the mean thing i just said its science...but regardless estrogen is a natural retardant not your fault

ps..anything said on the board is not generally meant to be taken seriously think of it as a forum of shit talking the general goal is to make someone look gay stupid or both